Friday, August 24, 2007

Honest Blogging

Well, I've had a couple of requests for a blog update. I racked my brain and tried to think of something clever or funny to post, but I couldn't think of anything. I guess the obvious thing to do would be to post pictures and stories from our AWESOME time in California with our friends Jeremiah & Lindsay. But to be honest, I don't feel like fighting with to get my pictures posted. Some other time (Soon, I hope). So instead, I am going to post a brief excerpt from my journal, that I wrote 4 days ago. Not much has changed since then, so I'm about to lay my heart out there for you. Don't judge too harshly. This whole thing makes me a little nervous. But hey, the 6 (maybe 7) of you out there that actually read this thing-- well, you're people that I trust. At any rate, it's from my journal, so a lot of it probably won't make sense!


Today I am very tired and feeling very distant from the Lord, whatever that means. Whatever that does mean, it's a common theme in my life these days. For starters, I have a hard time getting out of my head the expectations I have for what my relationship with Christ is "supposed" to look like. It's funny to say that I feel "distant" from God, when just 2 days ago I was so sure I was in his very presence.

But the truth is, there are so many unanswered questions swimming around in my head, and like I've said over and over again, seminary has made the questions even bigger and harder to deal with. Some days, God seems miles away and to be honest, completely unreal. And other days, like when I am in the presence friends and am communing with them, God's presence is so heavy. I am wrestling with some very real fears... most of which I do not know how to articulate. So I won't. But just how does God enter into our lives? How does he guide us (if he even does at all)? The Scriptures... well, that's a whole different issue for me. Is God really sovereign? I really struggle with that, because I just don't see how it works out. Needless to say, it's hard to do ministry with so many questions in my head. Sometimes, this whole thing seems way too hard.

My friend Jeremiah says that when he's standing at the ocean is when he feels the smallest and God seems the biggest. I just stood at the ocean, too. A great big, seemingly endless ocean-- it's proof of the greatness of God, right? Love. Laughter. Life. This is evidence of God, right? Friendship. No, my questions have nothing to do with the existence of God. My questions never have. My questions are about his workings. I understand perfectly that there's a lot I'll never understand. But I feel like I'm in a somewhat fragile place right now.

I don't know how to pray these days-- for how are those prayers answered? Yet, I know that to pray is not just to share meaningless chatter with God and that to pray is to listen. But somehow, it's a lot harder than it used to be.

Is it something I'm doing (or not doing) wrong? I am not convinced of that. I'm committed to prayer and to the study of scripture. And the frightening (yet somewhat comforting)part of it all is that I know without a doubt that God has called me to do full-time ministry. He has also called me to this place called Asbury, and that's another thing I'm sure of. So all of these ridiculous questions in my head, although scary, aren't really all that scary at all. For I do know (sort of) what direction I'm headed... so that must mean I'll be able to work through this eventually, right? I guess it depends on how committed I am to what I know God has called me to do and how committed I am to real faith.

So how has God entered into my life lately? In the quiet and in the lonliness. Through my marriage and the commitment of a fantastic husband. Through the most ridiculously wonderful friends a person could ever have. By standing at the foot of the ocean, being reminded of the greatness of God's creation (And sometimes through theology. But right now, it's making me crazy).


Lindsay said...

Thank you for sharing that Kelly! That all made perfect sense. There aren't concrete answers to all of those questions, but it's nice to know we all have them sometimes. Love your honesty. That's what it's all about.

Scott & Carissa said...

I second all that Lindsay said. I'd love to have coffee & hear about it in person.

jason said...

I think if we are honest - we all spend time right where you are. Look at Mother Theresa's recent "revelation"

I appreciate the disciple Thomas - and spend alot of time empathizing with him. Jesus' reaction isn't "You suck, Thomas" I kind of picture him smiling and extending his hand to him. Then I picture Thomas hugging Jesus - and that's kind of like me.